They call it the "Quarter-life Crisis." It is when you stop going along 

with the crowd and start realizing that there are many things about 

yourself that you didn't know and may not like. You start feeling insecure 

and wonder where you will be in a year or two, but then get scared because 

you barely know where you are now.

You start realizing that people are selfish and that, maybe, those friends 

that you thought you were so close to aren't exactly the greatest people 

you have ever met, and the people you have lost touch with are some of the 

most important ones. What you don't recognize is that they are realizing 

that too, and aren't really cold, catty, mean or insincere, but that they 

are as confused as you.

You look at your job... and it is not even close to what you thought you 

would be doing, or maybe you are looking for a job and realizing that you 

are going to have to start at the bottom and that scares you.

Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what others are doing and find 

yourself judging more than usual because suddenly you realize that you have 

certain boundaries in your life and are constantly adding things to your 

list of what is acceptable and what isn't. One minute, you are insecure and 

then the next, secure. You laugh and cry with the greatest force of your 

life. You feel alone and scared and confused. Suddenly, change is the enemy 

and you try and cling on to the past with dear life, but soon realize that 

the past is drifting further and further away, and there is nothing to do 

but stay where you are or move forward.

You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you loved could do such 

damage to you. Or you lie in bed and wonder why you can't meet anyone 

decent enough that you want to get to know better. Or maybe you love 

someone but love someone else too and cannot figure out why you are doing 

this because you know that you aren't a bad person.

One night stands and random hook ups start to look cheap.

Getting wasted and acting like an idiot starts to look pathetic.

You go through the same emotions and questions over and over, and talk with 

your friends about the same topics because you cannot seem to make a 

decision.

You worry about loans, money, the future and making a life for yourself... 

and while winning the race would be great, right now you'd just like to be 

a contender!

What you may not realize is that everyone reading this relates to it. We 

are in our best of times and our worst of times, trying as hard as we can 

to figure this whole thing out.

Send this to your twenty something friends.... maybe it will help someone 

feel like they aren't alone in their state of confusion.....

GOOD LUCK TO ALL OF US!!!!!

Thanks Yandan.