Saw this article on a magzine called “Get Real” (freely distrubuted in all tertiary institution in
No 1. When you have the hots for a girl, it is very natural to want to send her a sms every hour, to call her everydaym, and to chat with her every night on msn. Let me give you a clue, just DON’T!!
If you are constantly messaging her and calling her 24/7, you will not only irritate and annoy her, but pretty soon she will find you a nuisance. She has better things to do than to reply to all your messages and chat endlessly with you on the phone or online. So limit yourself and message her 2-3 times a week. This will give her space and make her wonder why you only message her infrequently. Let her get used to you and over time you will be given lots of opportunities to interact with her.
No 2. The biggest mistake that most guys make is being too damn nice. Most guys think that if they are super nice to the girl, the girl will like them, and then they will get married and have lots and lots of children, thus making the government very happy.
This isn’t the case. Most girls find nice guys boring, unexciting, and predicatable. All nice guys do the same things to impress girls. So be yourself and don’t be too damn nice.
No 3. Most guys think that they have to buy big expensive gifts and take the girl out on expensitve dates to get a girl to like them.
Let me tell you, it doesn’t work that way. If a girl is into you and has feelings for you, it really doesn’t even matter if you don’t buy her anything. That is because the girl likes you for you, not the things that you buy. If love could be bought, then the guy who spends the most money will get the girl.
No 4. Most guys are guilty of talking too much about themselves and their achievements. The worst are those who go on and on about all the army stuff they did during their national service. This is one of the biggest turn-offs to most girls. A girl is not going to like you just because you were an officer during national service or you were on the first team of your school basketball team. These things don’t really matter to them. So shut your trap and don’t’t reveal too much about yourself too fast. This will create a sense of mystery and the girl will be trying to figure out what makes you tick. Instead ask the girl questions and make her talk about herself. Once she feels you are more interested in her than talking about yourself, she will have much more positive feelings towards you.
No 5. Never ever tell a girl how much you like her early on in the game. This will scare her off and make her run in the other direction. Girls need time to know a guy and develop feelings for them. So telling herhow much you like her on the first date puts a lot of pressure on her which she doesn’t want to handle.
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