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ZT: Fate of a couple is sealed with first kiss
From The Times September 3, 2007 It is a moment of high anxiety in any romantic relationship. But now researchers have found that the first kiss may be even more important than anyone suspected. While a kiss may just be a kiss for a man, for a woman it’s an all-important means of gauging a prospective partner’s compatability. She uses it, the study suggests, to assess a “rich and complex exchange” of romantic and chemical clues that pass between partners as their lips touch. A “good kiss” will help convince her that the partner is worth perservering with but a man who is judged to be a bad kisser is unlikely to find himself invited in for coffee. In the longer term the woman treats kissing as a means to induce bonding and to help her assess whether her partner has remained faithful and interested. For men the kiss is much less important. It might be a source of hormonal information but it’s mostly regarded as a preliminary to sex. A man tends to regard a good kiss as one in which he’s allowed to use his tongue and is rewarded with moans of pleasure, the study found. Dr Gordon Gallup, of the University at Albany in the United States, said: “The information conveyed by a kiss can have profound consequences for romantic relationships, and can even be a major factor in ending one. “While many forces lead two people to connect romantically, the kiss - particularly the first one - can be a deal-breaker.” The study, published in the online journal Evolutionary Psychology, suggests that clues to a person’s health are passed on by kissing. These clues are picked up and understood - consciously or unconsciousy - by the kissers but are more important to the female, the researchers said, because she is more interested in a long-term relationship compared with the man who is often an “opportunistic mater”. Women were more likely than men to take into account the smell of their partner’s breath, the taste of their mouth and the state of their teeth during a kiss. “Females place a greater emphasis on kissing for making mate assessments,” the researchers reported. “Our data shows that females are more likely to base evaluations of their partner’s kissing ability on chemical clues, ie, the breath and taste. “This study provides evidence that romantic kissing may have evolved as an adaptive courtship strategy that functions as a mate-assessment technique, a means of initiating sexual arousal and receptivity, and a way of maintaining a bonded relationship.” Women were less than half as likely to have sex with a man without first enjoying a kiss, and the study also found they were less likely to tolerate the use of tongues on a first date. By contrast, men showed themselves to be far less fussy and were much more likely both to continue to want sex even with a bad kisser or without bothering with a kiss. Once a relationship was established, the researchers found, men grew less interested in kissing whereas women continued to give kisses a high priority. They were much more likely to kiss a partner after sex than men were. Researchers made their findings after analysing three surveys of a total of 1,041 college students, most of them aged 18 to 25. The study was conducted by academics from the University at Albany, the City University of New York and Albright College, all in the United States.?
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实习结束
10周实习最终在我震撼了所有人的font 36告别邮件和并不怎么热闹的Friday drinks后落幕。。。 ? 原计划周五最后一天好好表现，上班前草珊瑚刷牙三遍，泡个玫瑰花瓣牛奶澡加潘婷护发力士护肤，吉列超爽型form抹脸刮胡，某38p知名品牌发胶用以中分发型，穿最靓的衬衫，带最炫的领带，“把我的皮箱拿来，把我的皮鞋擦黑”，然后比line manager早到，以个人魅力将办公室的煽情不舍留恋气氛推向高潮。。。结果，周四晚上莫名其妙就打杂通宵了。。。早上7点多离开公司时，一群群trader和貌似trader的家伙已经捧着咖啡抄着FT神清气爽地蜂拥而入，人人都似用草珊瑚刷了三遍牙泡了玫瑰花瓣牛奶澡加潘婷护发力士护肤用吉列超爽型form抹脸刮胡某知名品牌发胶定型穿着最靓的衬衫带着最炫的领带皮鞋擦得乌黑。。。我只得蓬头垢面眯着熊猫眼钻入车内回到家洗个早再返工。。。 ? 自然，最后一天也是最平常一天，庸淡无奇。。。闲暇的上午，中午又忙到没时间吃饭，drinks session人也是少得可怜。。。之后去jamie's喝酒，mudmee吃饭，又来到家不错的酒吧小坐，又被line manager带到家sj，再次彻头彻尾的文化冲击，凌晨4点用手指撑着眼皮找到了回家的公车，1个多小时的车程转瞬而过，进屋后，完成了有史以来最迅速的一次进入昏迷的过程。。。 ? 俩月来最大的收获，便是见识了投行，见识了伦敦，见识了我原先最不以为意甚至鄙夷的生活。。。随之而来的是道德的质问，价值观的重审。。。最后又发现了一个有趣的现象：让好人变”坏“，似乎不是很难，让好人变坏，有时却是不可能，可两者的界限却又看似如此淡薄，经不起逾越。。。 ? 接下来的两周，我将没完没了地睡，没完没了地看电影，没完没了地睡。。。美其名曰：充电。。。过了阵巨充实的生活后，慵懒的生活竟然会使我顿感空虚。。。所以充电之余，我又听起了音乐，捧起了小说，看起了新闻，写起了博，豁起了达，剽起了悍，猥起了琐。。。。。。?
狗腿发表于1/19/2008 1:50:00 AM \| 评论[0]

教师节快乐！

学生生涯进入最末年，适逢教师节，感念施恩，允我历数对我影响至深的恩师。。。

栎木
- 张老师：小学1，2年级班主任+语文老师。。。相当慈祥的老人。。。
- X老师：小学2年级数学老师。。。超级美女，也相当器中我，可惜我却忘了她芳名，苍天啊~~~~~~（应该是叫李老师。。。）
- 乐君娜：小学4-6年级班主任+语文老师。。。在小学作为班主任对学生的影响力是无需言语证明的，只可惜我语文太菜，不免愧疚。。。
- 董老师：小学3-6年级数学老师。。。非常器中我，大大的恩师。。。
- 郑海英：小学5-6年级英语老师。。。超级美女Miss Zheng，作为课代表的我受宠有嘉，自是喜欢这位老师得不得了。。。
- 钟裕：小学5-6年级大队辅导员。。。本来和我毫无干系的一个帅小伙，但在莫名其妙将我提拔成大队委员后就常跟他混了，记得他吹小号的。。。
江东区青少年宫
- 张老师：小学4年级英语老师。。。英语启蒙老师，成熟型美女，她教的3L让偶进效实时的英文曾经辉煌过几个月。。。
奥数
- 梁老师：小学4-5年级奥数老师。。。很牛的老人，好像是北大的，是效实一个比我大上几年的叫梁天一的人的爹。。。喜欢用风油精往鼻子里抹，5年级时教我用行列式解4元4次和5元5次方程，直接导致我叛变投奔汪子亮。。。
- 汪子亮：小学5-6年级培优班/奥数老师。。。神！！！
效实
- 甘露：初一-初三班主任+英语老师。。。初中三年全靠甘老师罩着了。。。
- 胡群：初一-初三数学老师。。。巨负责又超可爱。。。
- 徐文霄：初二-初三语文老师。。。初中时最和学生打成一片的。。。
- 何琰：初二物理老师。。。曾造就了我初二物理一时的辉煌。。。
- 贺佩霞：初三物理老师。。。贺老师上课巨温柔。。。
- 王家祥：校长。。。一个帅到不行又让人敬佩的男人。。。
- 蒋志峰：高一-高三班主任。。。总裁踢球了，总裁训话了，总裁结婚生儿子了。。。。。。
- 高才群：高三10班班主任。。。才姐魅力无法挡。。。
RELC
- Miss Wang & Miss Lo：2 most lovely teachers I've ever met...
Chinese High
- 陈鹏仲：监护人。。。最上叫他处长，一直当他是干爹了。。。是个人最景仰的男人之一。。。
- Jaya Ranee: Sec3-Sec4 English teacher... the person who likes to fail me...
- Sung Kah Kee: Sec3-Sec4?Maths teacher... a gd teacher but din exempt me in sec3...
- Lim Teck Huat:?Sec4 Chem teacher... another student mixer...
- XYZ: Principal... quite some personal charisma but seems not vv well appreciated...
- 陈秀琴：武术负责老师。。。 a great teacher...
- Steven Su Kim Whatt: Sec3-Sec4 Physics teacher... I still cant face him... I got A2 in o-level physics...
- 王达昆：中四英语补习老师。。。人太善良了。。。
- Alex Ang: Sec 4 Oral teacher... where's he now???
Hwa Chong
- 谢美德：J1 CT。。。在新加坡见过的最可爱的老师之一。。。
- Veronica Chua：J1-J2 Econs tutor... vv pretty and lovely... sorry i slept too much...
- Adrew Yap: J2 Maths tutor... OMG so funny...
- Jasmin Ng: J1-J2 Maths tutor... such an adorable teacher, no, Mrs. Yap...
- Irene Tan: J1-J2 Physics tutor... cute cute cute...
- Gary Lim: J2 GP tutor... nice n knowledgable guy... ran away to US&A with his wife according to LiZhi
- So Swee Hock: J2 CT... an interesting and?responsible man...
Oxford
- Philipp Podsiadlowski: most handsome man in the physics department...
- Tseng: if only I know how his mind works...
- John Morton: young and talented...
- William Newton: nice and kind...
- Hans Kraus: this guy is just so cute... sooooooooooooo cute..."Let's get staaaarted..."... OMG...

I will remember all these names......

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Random
surfing internet in the airport... kinda cool... ? bubble bubble...?
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神奇的A8
昨晚终于实现数月来的梦想——A8。。。 ? 除三元老外，还有号称神奇四侠的杰西，还有小猪，哈菁，丁融，大圆。。。。。。海鲜大排档，一桌菜精光光。。。 ? 一瓶芝加一打啤，我一人喝了差不多三分之一。。。我乐中途在音乐轰鸣中昏迷，然后又出其不意地火山爆发。。。不过呕吐之后活力更胜，扭得更带劲儿，还把到个妹。。。今儿没消息，难道丫一大清早弃我而去后送人飞机去了？？？ ? 三位美女都很能跳，真是叫对了人。。。特别表扬大圆，还能喝。。。下次还叫上你们。。。 ? 4个篇章的音乐都不错，最后一个女DJ甚酷。。。 ? 从没这么high过，说不出来地high。。。花的是自己赚的银子，哦耶。。。不是一般地成功，说不出来地成功。。。。。。 ? 无比期待下一次"A8"。。。。。。
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Random
回了一周国。。。周四3小时高速12小时飞机1小时大巴冲到牛津，不禁自问：这算不算是“回来”？ ? 上海无限温暖，宁波无限亲切，A8无限激情，爷爷做寿无限热闹，有些人依旧可爱，有些人依旧小市民，有些人依旧神采奕奕，有些人依旧每况愈下。。。。。。这些人是血，血是要浓于水的。。。 ? 深夜一人在耗尽体力前一秒钟搬完所有寄存行李，长了三斤肌肉也磨损了三寸韧带般的成就感。。。房内昏黄灯光如旧，沉沉地让人提不起神。。。天亮后在城内骑车转悠，半个熟人没见着，直露露地揭示了我最后一年将孑然一身不改。。。tutors给我很多读PhD的建议，我只得在羞愧中唯唯诺诺无所适从。。。10公斤的大米让我想起暑期吃完并被报销了的400多磅伙食费，俨然甘心自豪地在此做个中下贫农。。。身在此间，竟一时对这个城市有了依恋感。。。一锅米饭，一碗极其失败的蛋汤，恃未开学而放纵于电影之中。。。想想家乡刚离开的人们。。。美妙清爽的周六清晨，太阳貌似豪情地仍了几把阳光进我窗口不到一泡尿工夫就蔫隐了。。。想出去跑步，雀巢作梗拉了小半上午。。。伦敦地铁又寻老百姓开心，折腾到小白家，骗吃骗喝却因时差颠倒未能多尽言语，龚挺这孙子真狗日地不地道。。。再回牛津，与两夜前一致的情形。。。期待明晨的阳光能坚持到一包屎的工夫。。。 ? theoretical physics。。。多么胖充的科目。。。胖充的第四年，胖充的master，读来何用？自我升值。。。升值个屁，做人比做学问要紧得多。。。我想我差不多知道怎么做人了：前半辈子到处折腾解救可怜的灵魂们，后半辈子去深山老林解救自己。。。。。。事实就是，庸俗的人才真正幸福。。。。。。 ? 我不搞个人崇拜的，但可能要为老王破例。。。你们去读读千岁寒吧。。。“我可以不知道我是谁，但我必须知道我不是谁”，我怎么念怎么觉着这话我以前也想过，现在也好，被他说去了。。。。。。
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挺
今天起得挺早的，日光挺饱满的，鸟叫得挺春的，天气挺秋的，头发挺庞克的，胡子挺猥琐的，早饭挺甜蜜的，咖啡挺小资的，新闻挺抹杀激情的，邮件挺垃圾的，街上姑娘挺不多的，理论课挺强奸脑细胞的。。。 ? 人还是挺萎靡的，房间挺艺术家的，午餐挺没着落的，午睡挺没指望的，要洗的袜子挺飘香的，要看的书也挺不薄的，好电影挺缺乏的，床挺诱人的，日子挺无趣的，挺想去北京的。。。 ? 心挺野的，灵感挺少的，幻想挺剽悍的，生活挺打击人的。。。 ? 挺蔫儿的。。。。。。
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Random
500G的硬盘。。。 ? 在年轻人和同龄人面前我显老是因为我真老，在年长者面前显嫩不是因为我真嫩而是我在装嫩，多么可喜且可悲。。。 ? 《阳光灿烂的日子》里的夏雨，《牯岭街少年杀人事件》里的张震，《十七岁的单车》里的高圆圆，《看上去很美》里的董博文。。。 ? 房间里开了暖气后的温度是：穿短袖太热，赤膊太冷。。。 ? 那天我差点就签了N95，后来狂藐视自己。。。接下来一学年电话费估计在30磅以内。。。 ? 下载，编辑，整理，存/刻盘是一级享受，看/听是二级享受。。。 ? 终于天天吃肉，今儿俩鸡蛋俩鸡翅一块牛肉，明儿还要俩鸡蛋俩鸡翅一块牛肉再他娘的贴根儿无敌腊肠。。。还有阿里的kebab爆涨价30p。。。 ? eBay原来没有Amazon好。。。 ? 有了Sue?os World Spanish的CD和Rosetta Stone的DVD，在想要不要pick up我的Spanish，最后决定，再看吧。。。 ? 回国的诱惑更大，欧洲行似乎渺茫了。。。YY背包中。。。 ? 一个人独自待久了，肯定得学会自个儿跟自个儿说话，不定有声儿。。。这我现在特在行。。。然后电影里那些自言自语的镜头看起来也不那么白痴了。。。 ? 今儿看了下我的ebooks的文件夹里有6万多个文件，嘻嘻嘻嘻。。。 ? 人们，宀八尸古=穴居。。。 ? 我记得曾经许诺要用实习挣来的钱买个正版Vista，现在我承认说大话了。。。主要还是因为，我已经开始yy下一个操作系统了。。。 ? 最开始是ICQ，后来是ICQ+QQ，再后来是ICQ+QQ+mIRC，又后来是QQ+MSN+ICQ+mIRC，再后来是MSN+QQ+ICQ，又后来是MSN+QQ，再后来是MSN+QQ+GT，又后来是MSN+QQ+GT+Skype，最后来是MSN+QQ，现在QQ肯定隐身，MSN有80%的时间不在。。。 ? 实习期间我没有碰过物理，现在我跟金融毫不搭边儿。。。生活本来就是这样在不同的围城里跳来跳去跳个没完。。。所以如果谁还硬说生活/生命有意义我会觉得是在自欺欺人。。。
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A typical day in Oxford...
0730: waking up... enjoying the aftertaste of watever was in the dreams... 0745: off the bed... washing up... 0800: coffee and breakfast... checking emails, reading news... 0830: checking blogs, facebook, forums... 0845: unexpected toilet rush... 0848: packing while the toilet?business not quite finished... 0900: lecture, daydreaming... 1000: back to room... napping... 1030: internet/film... 1200: cooking noodles... 1215: lunch, film... 1230: post-lunch coma, film... 1400: napping... 1600: still napping... 1630: internet/film... 1800: regretting the napping in the afternoon... 1805: cooking rice... 1830: dinner, film... 1845: post-dinner coma, film... 2000: film... 2200: film/internet... 2400: internet/film... 0100: regretting the time spent on internet and films... 0105: washing up... straight to bed... ? Ave. time spent in my room: ~22 hrs Ave. time spent in bed: ~9 hrs Ave. time spent on study: ~1.5 hrs Ave. time spent on food: ~1hr Ave. time spent on internet (excluding film hrs):?~6 hrs Ave. time spent on films: ~6hrs ? Ave. # of pple conversed with: ~1 Ave. # of sentences uttered: <10 Ave. # of films watched: ~3 Ave. # of phone calls received: <1 Ave. # of phone calls made: ~0 Ave. # of emails received: ~5 Ave. # of junk emails received: ~5 Ave. size of downloads: ~2G ? pls dun judge me... ;-p
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ZT: Gaze 'key to facial attraction'

You can alter your attraction to the opposite sex simply by looking straight at them and smiling, research suggests.

A study of hundreds of volunteers at Stirling and Aberdeen Universities found averting the eyes even a fraction can make you appear less attractive.

In the Royal Society's Proceedings B journal, they say the direction of gaze plays a role alongside a symmetrical face or healthy skin.

An expert said it may stop people wasting energy on pointless courtships.

The study used pictures of male and female faces which had been subtly digitally manipulated.

In one picture, a woman might be looking straight at the camera, while in the next, a tiny adjustment meant she would be looking marginally to the left or right.

The difference was so small that it was not immediately obvious to the viewer.

However, after these pictures were shown to 460 men and women, who were asked to rate them for "attractiveness", it became clear that it was having a pronounced subliminal effect.

In some pictures, there was an eight-fold difference in ratings between the "straight to camera" and averted gazes.

While many studies have found links between face shape, expression and other physical "cues" to attraction, this is one of the first to look in more detail at the direction of gaze.

The researchers wrote: "Mating effort is a finite resource that should be allocated judiciously, and preferences for direct gaze in opposite-sex faces would increase the likelihood of allocating mating effort to potential mates who are most likely to reciprocate."

Success stakes

One of the paper's authors, Dr Claire Conway, said: "People prefer faces that appear to 'like' them, showing that attraction is not simply about physical beauty."

Professor Ruth Mace, a researcher into evolutionary anthropology at University College London, said that while this seemed an obvious principle, it could be a sign of evolution at work.

She said: "It's a pretty clear signal whether a person is interested in you or whether you are wasting your time.

"But it suggests that how attractive you find someone is governed partly by how likely you are to be successful."

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